Life can feel overwhelming at times, and reaching out for support takes real courage. As a counsellor, I provide a safe, non-judgemental space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, emotions, and experiences at your own pace. My approach is compassionate and collaborative, helping you to build self-awareness, resilience, and practical tools for change. Whether you’re facing addiction, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, or simply feeling stuck, I am here to listen, support, and walk alongside you on your journey toward healing, growth and self-discovery.

I support individuals who are struggling with addiction and compulsive sexual behaviours. Men/Women who are addicted to porn might be using it as a coping mechanism against difficult emotions. Some client issues I work with include alcohol & drug addiction, porn addiction, sexual abuse, childhood trauma, grief and loss, shame, guilt, anxiety, depression, and fear of rejection. Family scapegoating, relationship issues, break-ups, betrayal, open relationships, loneliness, bullying and neglect, difficulty with boundaries and recovery from divorce, separation or breakups.

I am a qualified, experienced Integrative Counsellor, Sex Addiction Therapist and Meditation Teacher. I use all these modalities in a pluralistic way, as one size doesn’t fit all. Once we acknowledge our emotions, we can begin to heal them.

Experienced and currently working with porn and sex addiction/compulsion, partner cheating or betrayal. Spending money on OnlyFans, sex workers, chat lines and webcam services. BPD, depression, anxiety, catastrophizing, anger, rage, sexual abuse, shame, guilt, self-worth and self-esteem.

What makes me Different?

I’ve had a lot of success with helping men/women overcome drug, alcohol or porn/sex addiction. Having lived experience in this field, I offer a compassionate approach, empathy with the presence of others’ feelings and emotions, as I know what it’s like to struggle with addiction and various mental health issues. Congruence, professionalism, ethics, non-judgment and supportiveness characterise my approach. I hold space for clients to express themselves fully, to be seen, fully heard and understood. I’m also not afraid to challenge whilst being integral.

I am deeply passionate about this work and truly enjoy supporting others. I provide safety for clients, helping them understand addiction, compulsive behaviours, triggers, attachment styles, childhood trauma, negative emotions, feelings, family systems, childhood abuse, shame, guilt and neglect.

Help for individuals struggling with Sex/Porn compulsion:

Maybe you are here because you have found the courage to seek help and are ready to make some positive changes.

Maybe you didn’t know you had a problem until you were caught, or it’s no longer serving you.

Or maybe it is preventing you from getting into or maintaining a healthy relationship with others due to shame?

How can I support you?

I provide a compassionate space to start exploring how you got here and how you can change, how the brain craves dopamine and its function with addiction.

Helping you to understand what sex compulsion and porn addiction looks like, and how sometimes we use them to avoid negative emotions and feelings. Sometimes, looking for a connection due to loneliness or isolation.

Helping you to rebuild trust in your relationship and providing you with ways to communicate safely and honestly while maintaining boundaries.

I currently work with many diverse clients from different age groups, backgrounds and cultures. I support couples dealing with betrayal, lack of intimacy, lack of sex and want to resolve their relationship/marriage issues—couples where partners’ porn use is affecting the relationship, communication issues, problems of betrayal and trust.

I am a fully registered member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society and ATSAC, which stands for the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity.