At stages of our lives, most of us, if not all, experience personal losses and difficulties. It is quite normal to struggle with such issues and to need some help with these.

I help individuals help themselves who are struggling with compulsive sexual behaviours. Men who are addicted to porn and might be using it as a coping mechanism. Client issues I have worked with successfully include porn addiction, sexual abuse, childhood trauma, grief and loss, anxiety, depression, and people-pleasing/fear of rejection. Family fallouts, relationship issues, break-ups, betrayal, abusive and open relationships.

I am a fully qualified, experienced Integrative Counsellor, Sex Addiction Therapist and Meditation Teacher. Using these modalities in a pluralistic way.

Experienced working with sexual abuse, rape, people pleasing, grief & loss, bereavement, relationship breakdowns, conflict, family systems, betrayal, anxiety, depression, rage, difficulties setting boundaries, alcohol addiction, drug addiction, gambling, sex and porn compulsion. Low self-esteem, narcissism and co-dependency, domestic abuse and bullying.

I have successfully worked with couples in the areas of betrayal, fear of conflict, lack of intimacy and trust issues like jealousy. Partners’ porn use, partner visiting sex workers. Swingers, revenge porn, webcams,  open relationships, sugar babes and sugar daddies. Open relationships, kink, partner withholding sex.

What makes me Different to other counsellors?

I have a high success rate with helping men overcome porn/sex addiction having lived experience in this field. I offer a deep, compassionate understanding of the presence of others’ feelings and emotions as I know what it’s like to struggle with addiction and mental health issues.

My way of being is professional, ethical, non-judgemental, empathic, supportive, holding space for clients to express themselves fully, seen and heard.

I am very passionate about my work and love what I do. I provide safety for clients, helping them understand compulsive behaviour, triggers, attachment, trauma, negative emotions, feelings, family systems, childhood abuse and neglect.

Help for individuals struggling with Sex Compulsion:

Maybe you are here because you have found the courage to seek help and are ready to make some changes.

Maybe you didn’t know you had a problem till you’ve been caught, or it’s no longer serving you.

Or maybe it is preventing you from getting into or maintaining a healthy relationship with others due to shame?

How can I support you?

I provide a compassionate space to start exploring how you got here and how you can change how the brain craves dopamine and its function with addiction.

Helping you to understand what sex compulsion and porn addiction looks like and how sometimes we use it to avoid negative emotions and feelings. Sometimes, looking for a connection due to loneliness or isolation.

Helping to rebuild trust in your relationship and provide you with ways of communicating safely and honestly with boundaries.

I currently work with diverse clients from different age groups, backgrounds and cultures. I support couples dealing with betrayal, lack of intimacy, lack of sex and want to resolve their relationship/marriage issues.

I am a fully registered member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society. COSRT and ATSAC.­­­­­­­­­­­

Fees: £60 for individual 1hr session. £80 couples 1hr session.